Prioritize “You”

Dear friend,

Have you ever thought of how many times when you may have said “yes” or agreed to something that you never wanted to do? How many times have you agreed to something just because you wanted to keep up with the expectations of people, thinking that it may be “uncool” or cost us a beautiful bond, if we disagree with something?

We live in a world where everything is ship-shaped with the urge to impress people or keep up with perceptions. Most of the time we tend to agree with everything and go with the flow because we do not have a knack of being straightforward and saying “no.” We also worry that we may lose the beautiful bond that we share with this person or people because of saying “no” to something that we could have flexibly agreed to.

Most of the time we say “yes” to make other people happy and to maintain solidarity. Have you ever contemplated, if that very person would stand by you if you suggested something? Would they agree thinking along the same pattern of thought as you did? Would these people agree with you because it would make you happy, the same way that you think of their happiness? Questionable isn’t it? Why do we let perceptions overpower our thoughts, my friend? When are you hoping to think of yourself instead of what others feel? Think for yourself.

How many of these bonds that you wanted to cherish still remain with you just because you agreed to something that you did not want to agree to? Despite all the good we do, most of the time what we get in return from these people is “what did you ever do for me/us?” My buddy, this is the strange and harsh reality we live in. Most of the time it’s just you and I who think about the feelings of others while most people honestly do not care of what other people feel. Do things, but never expect anything in return.

So, my friend, prioritize “you” and learn to say “no” to things that don’t suit you. Every time you feel down be grateful and give thanks for what you have with you at the moment. Once you attract positive energy, there’s no stopping you from achieving your dreams.

Always wish the best, for anyone and everyone, the ones who have stood by you and the ones who have misunderstood you. Celebrate the good times. Celebrate the people who stand by you. Do what makes “YOU” happy. Celebrate “YOU.” Prioritize “YOU.” It will do your self-confidence a whole lot of good.

Cheers!